Jamie-Lynn Sigler's Touching Farewell to James Gandolfini in New Memoir
Shonda RhimesProlific television creator ("Grey's Anatomy," "Scandal") and author on creativity and empowerment.
Actress Jamie-Lynn Sigler, known for her role in "The Sopranos," has released her new memoir, "And So It Is...A Memoir of Acceptance and Hope," offering an intimate look into her personal journey, including her battle with multiple sclerosis, and her deep connection with her late co-star, James Gandolfini. In the book, Sigler details her professional and personal experiences, providing a heartfelt tribute to the man who played her on-screen father.
A particularly moving section of the memoir describes Sigler's last encounter with Gandolfini at his funeral in June 2013, held at the Cathedral of Saint John the Divine in New York City. HBO, the network behind "The Sopranos," arranged a private flight for cast members and crew to attend the service, highlighting the strong bonds within the production family. Sigler recounts kneeling beside the closed casket, placing her hands upon it, and offering a personal message of thanks: "Thank you for loving me, thank you for seeing me, for caring for me, and for making me feel safe." The repass, held at an Italian restaurant, felt eerily familiar, reminiscent of scenes from their show, making the surreal experience even more profound for Sigler. She also reflects on Gandolfini's son, Michael, describing him as a talented actor and a beautiful person, and noting that Michael reminded her of her own unborn child, concluding that "Michael was Jim’s greatest work."
Sigler's memoir emphasizes the profound impact Gandolfini had on her and the entire cast. She describes him as the central figure around whom their world revolved, suggesting that his passing marked the definitive end of "The Sopranos" era. The book is a testament to enduring relationships and the way colleagues can become family, shaping each other's lives both on and off screen. Her words paint a picture of deep respect and affection, reinforcing the idea that true connections transcend professional roles and last a lifetime, even after immense loss.

